It is in a shopping mall, located at the center of Kamloops, I was sitting at the outdoor cafes, listening to the music with earphones. As it was in Saturday, there were plenty of people in the shopping mall for purchasing and entertainment. I notice a pair of people of opposite sex walking towards this cafes with several bags carried by the man. I took down the earphones and looked at them. Their big smile in their face showed that they are happy and excited. They sat down at a table besides me so that I could have a detailed observation on them. They were very young, about 26 years, and handsome. The girl ordered two cups of coffee for them without inquiring the man. They seemed to be very familiar with this shop and knew well about the products in this shop, and the girl is very familiar with the boy. They began talking, the girl asked the boy about the dress they newly bought, and the boy said that the color was beautiful, but the design of the wait is not good enough, then the girl answered that she liked the fold in the shoulder. They talked with big smile on their face. I could identify that they are intimate friends from these information. And then, the boy kissed the girl on her face, so that it is clear that she was his sweetheart. Their behavior is not that can be done by ordinary friends. Then, I smiled to them, and they feed backed me with big smiles as usual, which is the warm they transferred to me. Wearing my earphones, I felt the sweetness around me.

I stood up and walked alone on the road in the shopping mall. Most of them were women under 50 years old. Some were with their husband or girlfriend, and some were with their female friends. From the facial expression of most of the men, it can be concluded that they wanted to leave this place. Women were always fantastic about shopping and men hated such places. They seem to be interested in buying new clothes and decorations by nature. The boy and the girl I met both enjoyed this experience, they seemed to be a new couple, and otherwise the boy might not be so patient and interested. This couple, of about 40 years old, were also looking around, but the man seemed to be boring and uninterested. They just like a couple that has been married for many years. Compared with that young couple, they seemed to be more ordinary and the sense of freshness is not that obvious. They didn’t chat frequently and the woman was dedicated in enjoying the beautiful clothes, but the man was just looking around. They have become relatives instead of lovers like before. Then, they went into a small store and the man sat on the chair in the store, and the woman selected a dress and tried on. The man looked at her and gave opinions, the woman was happy and then she tried on another clothes. It was another kind of love, not like the sweetness as expressed by that young couple. The way of getting along with each other transferred by this middle-aged couple is more common and authentic. The two different couples were getting along with each other in their own ways, and what they transferred to us is love.

From the two scenes as stated above, it is clear that different people may transfer different modes of getting along with each other, from which we can identify their relations. The young couple gives us the hints that they are newly together, which can be concluded from the sweet smile on their face. The middle-aged couple is more ordinary and they just like a family, and obvious sweetness is hardly seen on them. Different ways of getting along with each other indicates the relations between them. The society becomes more colorful with different modes of getting along with each other. These modes bring people together and help building a bigger family.