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It is in a shopping mall, located at the center of Kamloops. This shopping mall is crowded with people every day, especially at the weekend. Many stores are in the shopping mall and many couples of different ages enjoy here. Therefore there were plenty of people today in the shopping mall for purchasing or entertainment, which gives me a good opportunity to have a detailed observation on different people. I was sitting at the outdoor cafes, listening to the music with earphones, and observed two groups of people in the shopping mall.
Group 1
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The players
I notice a pair of people of opposite sex walking towards this cafes with several bags carried by the man. The boy was a little fat and is very tall. The girl is beautiful with long hair and big eyes. I could even felt that they are extremely happy as they walked so vibrantly and talked so much. Then, I took down the earphones and began observing them. I liked watching them as they are both of good looking. And their happiness could even inspire me to enjoy my life. Their big smile in their face showed that they are happy and excited. They sat down at a table besides me so that I could have a detailed observation on them. They were very young, about 26 years, and handsome. The girl ordered two cups of coffee for them without inquiring the man. They seemed to be very familiar with this shop and knew well about the products in this shop, and the girl is very familiar with the boy. They began talking, the girl asked the boy about the dress they newly bought, and the boy said that the color was beautiful, but the design of the wait is not good enough, then the girl answered that she liked the fold in the shoulder. They talked with big smile on their face. I could identify that they are intimate friends from these information. And then, the boy kissed the girl on her face, so that it is clear that she was his sweetheart. Their behavior is not that can be done by ordinary friends. Then, I smiled to them, and they feed backed me with big smiles as usual, which is the warm they transferred to me. Wearing my earphones, I felt the sweetness around me.
Group 2
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The players
I stood up and walked alone on the road in the shopping mall. Then, I noticed a couple of middle age. The woman was thin, good-looking and well dressed with delicate makeup, and the man was in a handsome suit that makes him look good. They seemed to be rich and have a good life. When they were hanging around this shopping mall, the woman was looking around at different clothes, bags or shoes, but the man seemed to be bored and uninterested. They just like a couple that has been married for many years. Compared with that young couple, they seemed to be more ordinary and the sense of freshness is not that obvious. They didn’t chat frequently and the woman was dedicated in enjoying the beautiful clothes, but the man was just looking around. They have become relatives instead of lovers like before. Then, they went into a small store and the man sat on the chair in the store, and the woman selected a dress and tried on. The man looked at her and gave opinions, the woman was happy and then she tried on another clothes. It was another kind of love, not like the sweetness as expressed by that young couple. The way of getting along with each other transferred by this middle-aged couple is more common and authentic. The two different couples were getting along with each other in their own ways, and what they transferred to us is love.
Final
From the two scenes as stated above, it is clear that different people may transfer different modes of getting along with each other, from which we can identify their relations. The young couple gives us the hints that they are newly together, which can be concluded from the sweet smile on their face. The middle-aged couple is more ordinary and they just like a family, so different ways of getting along with each other indicates the relations between them. The society contains many kinds of relations, which makes the world much more colorful and interesting. The expression ways are different for different relations, and the relationship between two people is well reflected through their eye contacts, behaviors and walking ways, etc. Different people walking together may be presented in different ways. It is a reflection of sociology that the relations of people are reflected in various ways. It is important to conduct appropriate behaviors towards different people (Campbell,et.al, 2002). The relation of two people can be identified through their communication. This paper mainly describes the identification of the relation between two people through their communication.
